Thanks everyone for the support. It helps a lot. We have some pictures scanned...and I sent a few to Rick and Annie...as they brought back some really great (and yet at the same time some painful) memories...
Adam was such a part of our life from day one after transplant. He was the "benchmark" that we looked to for how Holly would progress...as he didn't have the delays that Holly experienced
It also helped that he had an awesome mom. We are going to try and be there in any way for his mom and family...but it's really hard