Tough on a heavy hit like Buizalla's truck and a totally different situation...but w/ the minimal amount eBay deals, it's often best to keep the 'don't sweat the small stuff' and 'life's too short' things in mind.. I've been boned quite a few times over the years but w/ all the good deals factored in still consider the total eBay experience as a positive!. And although outright ripped off a few times I've still never left a negative feedback so as a result have never recv'd one either...seems no matter who's at fault, if you lay a bad stroke on someone else it may feel good for the moment but they're most likely to lay one back on you too and living w/ that forever may be harder than the loss of the dollar amount?. The best thing may be to try and access their personal info and hope their current phone number is there and give them a call...if nothing seems to work out, move on and forget it along w/ the continuing bs and resulting stress?.
~ Pete