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Old 02-14-2009, 02:57 AM
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wow, im going thru a divorce now , since may, getting bad , but my 10 year old son is number one write now , i lost my house , my 66 chevy II, my 18.5 foot boat , just so i can have my son!!!, praying is what keeps me going, god has been there for me. just pray and you will make it through this.
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Old 02-14-2009, 03:51 AM
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Lewis, I divorced years ago and all I can tell you is that there is life after divorce and it can be better. I lost everything from a new house, new cars, old cars and all the toys. I am still better off now because I would have hated the thought of spending my time and energy with a wife that did not want to be with me.
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Old 02-14-2009, 05:21 AM
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Just remember to never bad mouth the ex to the kids and in the long run you'll be the better person for it.
They are young, but not stupid - they will in time realize what is what and as long as you are righteous in the end your children will appreciate you for it!
Everything else is only money.
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Old 02-14-2009, 05:40 AM
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Man Lewis this sounds like great advice from these guys here. Keep praying for wisdom and even for strength to forgive. Keep everything in perspective. I have never been through a divorce but know many that have. It can be total destruction to any person or family. Keep your priorities in line. It will all work out. Sam
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Man Lewis this sounds like great advice from these guys here. Keep praying for wisdom and even for strength to forgive. Keep everything in perspective. I have never been through a divorce but know many that have. It can be total destruction to any person or family. Keep your priorities in line. It will all work out. Sam

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Old 02-14-2009, 06:31 AM
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Hi Lewis,

i can sympathize with you. I have the same "Problem" at the Time...

I wish you and your Kids all the best and take care!
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Old 02-15-2009, 12:16 AM
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Good luck Lewis.Things will get better.Take it from a guy who's been there,done that.Keep your boys close.
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Old 02-15-2009, 06:27 AM
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Lewis,

Hang in there man

I went through this same situation three years ago and I am
finally getting to the other side of the tunnel. It's a shame how love blossoms,
grows.... then dies and the rotting remainder is called divorce. In my case my
ex-wife went after all my vintage car parts. Luckily for me my Camaro was a
pre-marital asset and hence not on the table. I had to come up with a pile of money to keep all my vintage parts.
There isn't much left of my financial security for retirement now, but I'll get it back up there.....

If you need anyone to talk to about it, drop me a PM - Seriously! It's not fun but
you have to remain calm and be calculating about all your moves.

Now the fun starts.... All her "friends" coming out of the wood work giving divorce advice.

Nuch
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Take every bit of advice these people are giving you. I have come from a divorced family and it hasn't been fun. As hard as it may be, keep the kids in mind and make sure that if you have to say nasty things, please try not to do it in front of them. Things tend to subside and come out later in life.

"Life's like a box of Chocolates. Ya never know what you're gonna get."
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